There are a lot of things a person needs to understand to live a good life. What I believe is, the happiness, the pleasure, the magic is locked somewhere and you gotta find the key and open that lock  to live a life near to perfect. See, you aren’t living for the world, you didn’t come here to just grow up, have children then grandchildren and die.No! You came for something more than that. You came to live. To live for yourself not for the world. 
You are here to find  the way in this journey and break the chains that are stopping you to live fully. You gotta live, live your life cause life won’t live you. It’ll be just passed to someone else after you. No one will live your life, that’s the pleasure and that’s the tragedy.

Give it the way, give it the pleasure to be lived. Its been waiting since long.